One of the best ways to improve your sex life with your partner is with sex toys. Neither one should shy away from introducing new ones to your sexual activities, and both can agree that variation in toys can enhance sexual experiences If you have yet to use a sex toy with your partner, then it's time to shake things up.
Here are 10 great reasons why you should be working them into your sex life.
1. They Take the Pressure Off of You
As we age it often is harder to achieve orgasm. Women need clitoral stimulation by fingers or by tongue and this may not always be possible or intense enough. A vibrator can provide the extra stimulation to get to a happy ending. This eases the pressure on both partners.
2. They Take the Pressure Off Your Partner
The phrase nobody does it better is true and while no one can “Hit” the spot like you do, the introduction of toys can change the game. You will not only take the pressure off your trying to achieve orgasm, but it will take the pressure off your partner, too. Sex will be relaxing and tingly as opposes to be nervous and anxious.
3. You're More Likely to Have Multiple Orgasms
If one is good twice is better. Once you take the pressure off yourself and off your partner, then you can open the door to not just orgasms that are easier to reach, but even multiple orgasms. It's a scientific fact that vibrators enhance sexual satisfaction,
4. Exploration Makes for Hotter Sex
Technology and toys change the playing field. Books and Movies (Like Fifty Shades) have introduced the mainstream to activities that may have been considered kinky in the past and have made them accepted. Exploring new realms in your sexual relationship doesn't just open doors to things you never knew you could possibly enjoy but creates an even greater sexual bond.
Remote control toys can control partner from across the room (or across the globe); Anal toys such and butt plugs open areas previously considered taboo are great while a woman is receiving oral sex; and whips, blindfolds, handcuffs, gag ball, and nipple clamps for those looking to take their BDSM game up a few notches. Let's be honest: You never forget the first person who handcuffed you to the bedpost.
5. They Encourage You to Try New Positions
As we age we need to explore different positions that are comfortable and fulfilling. The Kama Sutra may have only 64 positions, but with enough creativity and a sex toy as your guide, you might find there are more than that.
6. Mutual Masturbation Is Awesome
Masturbation is a very private act and even more intimate when using a toy. Most of us masturbate alone but watching a partner is erotic and educational. Playing with sex toys in front of your partner not only shows them what you like and how you get yourself off but also demonstrates that you trust them. Men, are visual and allowing us to watch is intensely erotic and you may find you’re equally interested in watching them have a happy ending.
7. They Can Bring Fantasies to Life
When we were kids we all play fantasy games We probably all played doctor and patient or a police officer cuffing suspect to a bed ― whatever the case may be, dressing up, role-playing, and using toys as your props it is the best way to take the fantasies out of your head and into the “real” world.
8. Give the Middle Finger to Stigma
In the past Sex toys have had a bad rap for being needed by sad and lonely people. Sex toys are for everyone and couples with great relationships already know that. Men have been intimidated by the notion of "competing" with sex toys. Seriously, guys? By using toys in the bedroom, you and your partner will be giving the finger to those outdated myths and that makes sex even more fun.
9. Put Your Curiosity to Bed
Solo sex with a toy is fun but we all know it always better to share. Have you ever fantasied about using your toy with a partner? Isn’t it about time to take your fantasy to reality. Well, what are you waiting for then? Once you give it a try, you can stop wondering, and start having the best sex of your life.
10. Buying Them Together Is A Bonding Experience
Shopping for groceries can be boring but sex toy shopping together is fun. Deciding which ones are could be a good fit will be an entertaining exercise. There's a huge variety of toys out there, and with a little trial and error, you'll find one that works for the two of you. Also, don't be afraid to talk to the salespeople - they can lead you in the right direction.
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